Now there is no doubt that you can train yourself to last longer. I’ve mentioned this several times on this blog and there are many ways to do it. It is all about learning how to stop yourself getting too fearful of ejaculation.
One way to supposedly help you do that is to use a device. I must tell you, I have never used a training device of this sort. When I had premature ejaculation, I never even knew about these devices and I don’t think they had even been invented at the time.
The device I am talking about is the “Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit”. In case you didn’t know already, Fleshlights are a type of adult toy used by men. They look like a flashlight but if you pop the cap off then you basically see a hole. It doesn’t take much imagination to guess how to use this device!
This company experienced a lot of success over the years and became recognised as the number one premium product. This is because, although they come in different colours and exterior styles, the real advantage is in the research and development of the inserts. Realistic, silicone materials and an interesting variety of sensations due to the different ribs, ripples, bumps and whatever you want to call the inside of those inserts!
Yes, on the one hand, these products seek to “simulate” real sex and will be better than any blow-up doll and closer to the real thing when compared to your hand. But they go even further than that and give you a tactile experience that can’t be found anywhere else.
Now Fleshlights in general have long been recommended as a training aid to help men last longer but when the “stamina training unit” a.k.a. the STU was invented, we now had a device that was specially intended for this purpose. Compared to the original, the STU is tighter (0.5 inches diameter compared to 0.75 inches) and is also textured (rather than smooth). Is it specifically better for lasting longer compared to the other models? Frankly, I don’t see any evidence of that.
So are Fleshlights useful? Yes, I think they are. Especially if you have much more experience masturbating than having real intercourse with a woman then they can help to simulate the feeling of the vagina around your penis. Just remember that premature ejaculation is a problem of anxiety, a lack of confidence in your abilities. These devices can help you be a little more relaxed because you will come to experience the feeling of a vagina around your penis as quite normal and not as a shock but they cannot replicate all the other aspects of sex, especially the intimacy with your partner. This is not a criticism of the fleshlight, I’m only pointing out that, like anything else, it has its limitations.
You can find out more about the STU and other Fleshlight models at their official site here: Stamina Training Unit.
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